- Talk to a real person in your real life about what you’re doing and who you’re meeting.
- Make it easy to end a date.
- Never have two meals on the first date.
- Solve for your show stoppers fast.
- Meet in public.
- Let a real person know where you’re going and when you expect to be back.
- Get a good picture. Have a friend take at least 100 and pick the best. (Look at Look Better Online.)
- The next day, ask your gut / soul / unconscious / subconscious / higher self / God of your understanding: Yes or No?
- A quick No may be uncomfortable, but a bad relationship is always worse.
- Keep your shoes on.